Ok, first of all, I’d like to thank all who participated in this week’s discussion. Before I elaborate about your the comments, I should give you the break down on my three central reasons to “Why Men cheat? Why you always need to be a freak.
1. For the Game of it- Please understand, that guys often imitate the actions that other guys do. This is the real. We all have been taught by someone. This particular type of man understands the ratio of women to men in America and plays on it. Until that man reaches a level of maturity (that a woman can not demand or make him reach) then this is the lifestyle that gives him the thrill. For many of us men, we were raised by our mothers and famillies who preached to us “take your time, you don’t have to rush into anything” or “there’s plenty of fish in the sea” attitude. This particular dude took those sayings to heart
2. She could fulfill his fantasy- What ever it may be, she has it. (Hint Ladies: Guys may be more willing to share these uninhibited fantasy’s within 6 months to a year of knowing you, some maybe sooner, Mr. Everything’s advice is to start conversation about it early). Understand that men and women are bombarded with images daily. Some of us understand that all images that we see aren’t real, but that doesn’t mean that we don’t fantasize about them. So make us fantasize about you. Find out what makes us tick…and use it to your advantage.
3. They’ve become emotionally closer. Ok, she took your spot. Believe it or not, men can be sensitive. LOL, but its true. If your man, or ex has declared this reason to you then it’s probably the flat out truth. A man doesn’t release something of this nature if he isn’t secure in his reasoning. Advice: Take the mature role. It may hurt because you have invested so much, but move on because you know that you can satisfy and please another. Be honest with yourself and weigh your mistakes. If there are none then its “ON TO THE NEXT ONE”
Thanks for the Love,
Ur Mr. Everything
KIFAT
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I hear you. And in my experience you're definitely right. The issue that I find hard to overcome is "thegrassisalwaysgreener" syndrome. Whats a girl to do when she follows this advice to a "t" and STILL gets cheated on? It leaves us painted into a frustrating corner...My solution is to always make sure I am CHOSEN. I will not argue my way into your life. And I will not be the one that you struggle to choose. It is or it isn't. You will or you won't. Make your choice... Just know that when you do, you might find out that the grass ISNT always greener....Yep... ON TO THE NEXT ONE. :)
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